Jun 17, 2009

wait. wish. wonder.


A girl sent a letter to a boy. The letter says..

Dear Boy,


I do not know who you are, or where or when we will meet, but i do hope it is soon.

I pray that when we meet and fall in love, you will love me, for me, and not hope for what i can do or what i will do or what i have did. I hope you won’t compare me to girls who may have brighter smiles and prettier. I hope that you will make me laugh, take care of me when i get sick, and be trustworthy.

I hope you will remember that I prefer chocolates to roses, and that my favourite colours are blue and green. Please know that my eyes are not blue, grey or green, in fact they’re black but almost dark brown.

Please know that I might be too shy to kiss you first, but please don’t be afraid to kiss me. I won’t slap you or push you away. I’m sure your kisses will be perfect. When we go on a date, please don’t stress about where to take me; what’s important is that I’ll be with you.

If I cry, please know it isn’t because of you, just hold me close, and I’ll heal quickly. And, if it because of you, I’ll heal just the same.

And if we decide to break up, please understand that I may be bitter, but I’d like to be your friend if you’ll let me. I promise to remember that you have feelings too, even though you will never admit it, and when you are ready we’ll have a friendship.

Please tell me if anything I do bothers you, or if something just doesn’t sit right. I would like you to always be honest with me. Even if you think telling me that you want to watch football with your friends instead of go shopping with me might upset me because I’ll be more upset if I knew you lied. I promise I’ll try to be understanding. If I have a bad day, I hope you will shower me with confidence and smiles.

Please do listen to what i have to say and even if you’re not really listening, please act like you are because i do need your attention. And if we argued or broke into a fight, just know that I am always right and you are wrong. That way, we don’t have to always fight.

I also would like you to know that you don’t have to make big surprises such as giving me a diamond ring or buy me a really expensive gift because i would always be happy just to receive a thoughtful gift from you with a kiss to go with it. And i will always appreciate the little things that you do for me such as folding the legs of my jeans so that they don’t get wet in the rain or do my shoe laces when they’re untied.

I hope you don’t think that I’m asking too much of you. I hope you understand that I’m a little bit nervous and very scared. I wish I could tell you how or when we will meet, and if we will be in love forever. Every relationship is a new game of cards, and.. I’ve never been good at cards. But I will try my best to be kind and love you dearly for all that you are, without expecting too much from you. Thank you for listening; this is all that I ask.

Girl.


The boy then replied..


Dear Girl,

I feel that the time has come for me to have a girlfriend. I know you’re out there somewhere. Don’t worry, I’ll find you.

And when I do, I hope that you will love me because I’m me, not because I’m Brad Pitt’s brother. I hope you won’t be embarrassed when my clothes don’t match, or be annoyed when I want to watch the Lakers on ESPN, instead of Gossip Girl.

I hope that you will remember I play soccer, not football, and that I play midfield, not defence, and that every weekend I live with my family.

I pray that you’ll love me despite my tendency to forget birthdays, and if your parents invite me to dinner, please write their names really small on my hand so I can use it as reference.

Please know that I will constantly act strong and in control, but inside I am actually lost and confused. (Just don’t tell my friends). Please don’t worry if I hurt myself skateboarding. Instead, be there to mend my wounds with kisses.

Understand that loving each other means being together, but not all the time. We should never bail on our friends. Also understand that I may at times act jealous and overly protective, but only because I have insecurities not because you are doing anything wrong.

And if we fall out of love with one another, please don’t hate me, and if I cry in front of you, please don’t laugh at me. Please know that I am sensitive...in a manly, tough kind of way.

Please be honest with me without being hurtful. After all, I am a boy. And I promise to always be honest with you, because you deserve honesty. And I promise to open doors for you and buy your ticket when we go to the movies.

And no, you’re not fat, so please don’t constantly ask. And you don’t need makeup either. Oh, and don’t be upset if you cut your hair and I don’t notice. I will love you even in Levi’s and a T-shirt.

I hope you don’t think that I’m asking too much of you. I just want to be happy making you happy. I’m coming to find you, so don’t go anywhere. Stay where you are, whoever you are.


Boy.



i may not be the person who originally wrote the letters. but truthfully, I've made a few changes to make it sounds more like me. haha. [bodo ini olang]. Without a shadow of a doubt, two thumbs up for the original writer because for me, he/she had successfully compiled all the feelings that a girl always feel when they are about in the middle of something. Girl, don't play dumb. u know what on earth am i talking about. But am not sure about the boys feeling. Is that all true? Only u can tell.


To girls and boys, good luck in finding your significant others. Those letters will be very helpful if u wish for a guidelines. ;)




p/s: i don't deny am wishing on the same thing. this is part of my confession.


until then,



xoxo,


razzle dazzle.

2 comments:

adilah liyana said...

ini sgt pnjg
dan saya malas nk baca
nanti crite kat kt k

Razzle Dazzle said...

mane boley cerite..
x besh lah begitu..